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Letting Go of the Future to Find Peace in the Now

At the start of every new week, I used to set my mind on goals, plans, and targets—just like I did before the pandemic. But after the pandemic, something changed in me. I told myself: Set yourself free. Live the moment.

We’ve all heard this more often lately—live the moment, be present—especially after going through such an uncertain period. While listening to podcasts and watching videos on YouTube, I asked myself, Why not? Why do I always push myself to plan everything for the future? Instead, I started embracing the present, slowing down, and letting go of constant overthinking.

This shift in mindset turned out to be incredibly beneficial—not just for my mental health, but also for my physical well-being. I became noticeably happier, calmer, and more grounded.

When I compare my past self to who I am today, I feel much more confident. And honestly, that confidence is one of the most valuable things I’ve gained. It makes you stand out, and it helps you recognize your own worth.

So my suggestion is this: whatever you have right now, you are already one of the luckiest people in life.

Carpe diem, everyone



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